Ask Mama Jenn-continued
10/26/00
Dear Mama Kat, 10/21/00
Dearest Baby Paul,
Strangely, another baby asked the same question at nearly the same time that you did, so I'll refer you to my reply to Fantasy Baby for all my answers. However, since you are not married like Fantasy Baby, I'll give you advice which is more tailored to your needs. 10/21/00
Dear Fantasy Baby, 10/17/00
Sweetheart, 10/6/00
Dear StressedOut, 10/6/00
Dearest Derek, 10/1/00
Dear Wannabediapered, 10/1/00
Oh Dear, 9/26/00
Dear Mark, 9/23/00
Dearest Joey, 9/22/00
Dear Friend, 9/22/00
Dear Baby Kellie, 9/22/00
Dear DiaperedBoyInGirlsClothes, 9/17/00
Dear Wetdiapers, 9/15/00
Dear Baby Joey, 9/14/00
Dearest Glen, 9/12/00
Sweetheart, 9/12/00
Dear Baby Sharon, 9/07/00
Dear Benji, 9/02/00
Dearest Bootsie, 9/02/00
Dearest Michael, 9/1/00
Dear Coco, 9/1/00
Dear Benji, 9/1/00
Dearest Baby Mickey, More Ask Mama Responses on next page.
Dear Mama Jenn,
Hello. I have recently married an AB. He is a sweetheart. I have never heard of AB's before I met him. I was reading the letters and comments in here, and I gotta tell you I'm really impressed with you. You sound like a real caring person and I'm glad the babies have you to talk to. My baby and I are in our early 40's. We have been married almost 5 months and met online a little over a yr ago.I was scared at first when he told me he was a baby. But now after being with him I would reccomend and adult baby to all women. They will never find such love and loyalty as what these lil ones have to offer. He was a little shy at first, especially bringing lil cuddly out. But once he realized I would love him 100%and wanted him whole , not just a part of him, Cuddly is out daily and we are down to a routine.
Cuddly is 5.4 so its very easy for me to make clothes for him. He wears a childs 14. Patterns are easy to find.I wish some one knew where I could find actual adult baby clothes patterns though. I have made him dresses and bonnets and a few onsies. I even figured out a way to make him plastic liners in the rumba pants I make. I bought plastic crib sheets and cut out the pattern, I sew them to the inside of the rumba pants I make.
Cuddly Drinks forula with rice cereal and a touch of sugar in it from a bottle. Sometimes he eats baby food from a jar to. He wears the thin depends at work and as soon as he gets home , I put him in a thick one. Cuddly likes bulk in his diapers. One of the babie's here mentioned that they buy the pad liners..well I got to thinkin that could get kind of expensive if your living paycheck to paycheck..like we are. I bought a bunch of the cotton baby liners. I think they are called soakers. I sewed 2 together at the ends so they are longer. Then I layer them, usually 3 on the inside of his depends. This not only gives him the bulk he wanted, but are very absorbant. And they are washable. I like saving money.
As far as punishment goes, I never spank cuddly. He is usually a very sweet tempered baby. The one time he got real cranky and refused to mind mommy..I just gave him a 10 min time out sittin in the corner..That was 2 months ago and I've never had to do that since. lol.
I hope I have helped a little and Mama_Jenn you keep up the good work. You're an awesome Lady and the babies are lucky to have you.
Hugzzz
Mama Kat
What a delight it was to read your letter! I love your idea about padding diapers with a soaker made from baby liners! That would be so much more inexpensive than disposable pads! However. not every baby is blessed with a Mommy like you who can sew or has regular access to a washing machine in privacy. If one does, of course, your idea is utterly brilliant!
Allow me also to comment on your relationship with Cuddly. You sound like a wonderful mommy and I'm positive that there are a great many babies out there who are rightfully jealous of Cuddly's fantastic luck! Your description of your relationship offers hope to many, many ABs that they might someday find a kind, nurturing and adoring mommy like you! Please keep us all updated, the entire AB community is behind your loving relationship with your husband/baby! If I can ever help you, simply send me a message!
With Love and Kisses for your baby boy,
Regards,
Mama Jenn
Dear mama,
how should I go about asking my girlfriend
to help me be a baby again as I cant control the desire to be in Nappies
permanently now
please help me
yours,
little paul
Sweetheart, with any luck at all, your girlfriend is a nurse or works with babies. This would help a great deal. If she doesn't, you'll have to prepare her slowly for the shock. I gather that you wish to become a permanent baby in nappies. This is far, far more difficult than having a girlfriend who is merely willing to accept you as a person who occasionally needs mothering. If you want to be a permanent baby, Mama suggests that you find a woman who is financially secure in and of herself, preferably a woman who has inherited wealth and works for the social good as a nurse in a hospital nursery or pediatric ward. Secondly, she should have a dominant, but maternal personality which would predispose her to mothering you.
Whether or not your girlfriend meets these criteria, you should begin by establishing your relationship first. If you meet her sexual and fantasy needs, you will have a far easier time of having her meet your needs. Be extremely strong and protective (not jealous) of your girlfriend in public. Cuddle with her frequently and make her feel secure in your presence. Be attentive as well as helpful to her to make her feel special. Be sensitive, sympathetic and loving. Watch weepy movies or videos privately with her and weep yourself. Privately tell her of your tragedies in your life and either cry or weep as appropriate.
Have at least two "occasional" minor wetting accidents that you explain are due to an incurable medical condition. After you have one or two wetting accidents in her presence, begin to wear disposable diapers under your clothes. Start carrying an unobtrusive diaper bag with clean diapers, rash ointments and baby powder.
On occasion, ask her to cuddle and hold you because of an insecurity caused by work or some other plausible excuse. (Make sure that you have made a standing practice of cuddling and holding her first.) After a while, you should find that you are cuddling with her without your clothes, except for your diapers. If she can pat your back and comfort your anxieties by telling you that everything is okay while holding you when you are wearing nothing but a diaper, then you are probably home free.
Slowly let the sessions in which you cry aloud (not weep ) on her shoulder while only allowing yourself to be comforted by loving pats as she works further and further down your back. At some point, she will begin patting your diapered bottom to comfort you. This is the point at which you should stop being unavailable to her attempts to comfort you. If a few pats on your diapered bottom is all that it takes to dry your tears, she will do it.
As long as she sees that you are strong and successful, as well as utterly devoted to her, she will accept your diapers as part of your medical condition. Your occasional need to be cuddled should be accepted by her as most women want to be cuddled as well.
The experience of cuddling you should give rise to maternal feelings for you, especially if you manually manipulate her breasts and nipples while having sex with her. (See Mama Jenn's article on "How to Breastfeed your adult Baby" in the Resources section of our Website for the technique.) Don't mix sex with baby fantasies! If you are effective in causing her to lactate, then there may come a cuddling session in which you might be invited to suckle at her breasts to calm you down. Since the breastfeeding experience is extremely pleasurable to women, the process will, most likely, repeat itself. After a couple of sessions of breastfeeding, you may wet your diapers after feeding. (Don't poop in them!) Allow her to change you if she offers (and under the circumstances, the chances will be high that she will make the offer) so she can renew her attempt to breastfeed you again. Then wet your diaper again.
After she is used to your diapers and wetting, you can add a teddy bear to your bed for you to cuddle for security as you sleep. You can begin wetting yourself in your sleep while cuddling your teddy and have to change yourself each morning. If the bedsheets become wet, either purchase bedpads prior to the occasion or buy them the next day so she won't have to share your wet sheet. Some weeks later you can go to (apparent) sleep and begin to suck your thumb while you slumber. At that point, she will start thinking of you as a baby at night.
Once your girlfriend is at a stage where she cuddles and mothers you, including breastfeeding and changing your diapers, your thumbsucking will convince her that you are subconsciously a baby. It won't be long after that that she decides that you are really a baby and begins treating you like one. If she does, start drooling occasionally and talking to her in short baby sentences. Bow to her demands and act as pliant and as dependent as a real baby when she treats you like one. Accept a bottle of formula with glee and suck on any dummy she gives you like a real baby. She may attempt to humiliate you in front of her friends. If she does, simply act like a baby. Making a poopy in front of her friends will convince her that you are a real baby and should be treated like one. Don't try to explain anything to her friends, rather babble in a toddler's babytalk.
Good luck on your quest to return to babyhood!
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn:
I am a married man, for over 20 years, in his mid 40's with three children
still at home, uner 18. I have had AB fantasies since I was a young
teenager, but only acted upon them once. This was with my wife early in our
marriage and she freaked out about it. (Her opinion has not changed would be
my guess.) My question is twofold:
1: How can I bring it up again to her where she will understand this need?
2. How can it done, if at all, with our children at home? (Like it or not, in
the real world, I am still an authority figure to be counted on for them.) I
can keep supressing these desires for them for however long it takes
but to find a proper way for these desires to be fulfilled would be a dream
come true. Any ideas would be welcome.
Fantasy_Baby
One way to have some time for yourselves would be to either hire a babysitter or let the oldest babysit the other two children while you spend the night at a hotel or motel. Because having the eldest babysit the younger two children generally ends up in sibling disharmony, I would recommend hiring a responsible babysitter of mature years. Another way of managing the problem is to wait until summer and send the two youngest off to camp, and managing to have the oldest spend the weekend at a friend's house. Of course, you would have to reciprocate and allow your oldest child to invite his or her friend over for the weekend at your house. Weekend visits with the Grandparents can be used the same way. Another variation is to send the two oldest children to camp and have the youngest spend the weekend with a friend or his or her Grandparents.
For shorter playtimes, you could drop the kids off at a movie or two that they all want to see and let the oldest ride herd on the two youngest. Or you could pay the oldest to babysit the two youngest at the movies. A small party with the Grandparents at one of the Pizza Palaces that specialize in entertaining children for hours is yet another possibility (You would have to foot the bill for the party, of course). The age and gender mix of your children will determine what is best for your family.
My best advice for talking your spouse into allowing you to play out your fantasy is to play to her fantasies first. Ask her casually if she has a sexual fantasy and put aside time to help her play out her fantasies. Once she is convinced that you are giving of yourself to please her, it will be far easier to talk her into assisting you with your fantasy. Begin by explaining that you feel that you need to be cuddled and held by her. Since you are doing the same thing for her, she can hardly object to your self-same need. Before you ever talk about diapers, make it a regular practice for you to need a cuddling session with her. Under no circumstances are you to mix sex with diaper fantasies nor should you describe them in a sexual context! In this way, your diapers will not be a sexual competitor or deviant sex in her eyes, especially if you make it plain that you love her and your fantasy is only a way for you to allow yourself to be totally vulnerable and display your utter trust in her.
In your wife's case, she must be utterly convinced that you are a man who loves her, and will protect and provide for her to the best of your ability before you make any overtures about your fantasies. Many women are subconsciously afraid that if they allow their husbands to play baby that they will either become weak and dependent as well as self-centered. Pick up after yourself and help her clean house to demonstrate to her that you are her partner rather than an oversized child that she must look after in addition to the kids. If you can cook, fix dinner a few nights each week. If you can't cook, do the dishes for her. Try not to lose things so that you won't have to ask her where everything is. Put the toilet seat down on the master bathroom's toilet and flush every time. Be considerate of her feelings.
Lavish affection and cuddling on her. Rub her feet and brush her hair. Listen quietly and sympathetically to her complaints about home or work, without offering how to fix whatever problem that she describes! If she wants you to fix something, she'll ask you. Most women only want to have someone who is sympathetic listen to them vent about their problems and don't want any solutions.
Don't ever forget her birthday or your anniversary. Rent weepy videos and watch them with her on Friday nights in the privacy of your bedroom, allowing yourself to weep too! Late at night after the kids are in bed, tell her about a tragedy you had when you were a child and weep openly about it. You may find her hugging and comforting the "little boy" in you who is still grieving. A woman who has had children is "hard-wired" for maternalism, so all you have to do is provide a venue for her to mother you - let her! You can still play the "macho man" act for the kids, but drop the act with her and instead be sensitive and loving with her.
Buy her some flowers on Friday after work for no particular reason. (Don't buy flowers if you've been out of town or in some place where you've been out of sight for too long, nor should you buy too many flowers. Otherwise, she'll suspect that you've been stepping out on her!) A single, long-stemmed rose and her favorite imported candy bar are good, inexpensive impromptu gifts.
Put a single wrapped chocolate on her pillow before she goes to bed. Chilled Japanese Plum wine is a delightfully sweet and full-flavored dessert wine that many people enjoy as a bedtime treat. Go to the grocery store occasionally and buy a card that tells her how much you love her. Court, date and take her to a motel for a bit of adult fun for some of her fantasies! Give her lover's (greeting) cards that ask her out on dates. (Going out on dates together will not only help your relationship with her, but it will get the kids used to the idea that their parents have lives too! They will be more accepting of having babysitters over occasionally if you make a regular practice of going out with your wife.
If your wife does respond to you by participating in your fantasies, then don't stop helping or treating her with special difference, rather increase your efforts to fulfill her needs with your attentions so that she will receive a positive reward for being your Mommy.
When the day comes that she's always pleased to play mommy for you, then let her know in advance about your upcoming need for mothering by having a session with Mommy by buying her a cute baby card with a baby or babies doing or saying adorable things and asking if she would be your Mommy on Saturday/Sunday morning or whichever playdate you are contemplating.
Start your fantasies on a small basis, with only diaper wearing and suckling her breasts at first. Don't pee or mess your diapers until she signals that it's okay for you to do so. You don't have to send the kids off for your fantasies, just make it plain to the kids that you and Mommy are going to sleep late on Saturday or Sunday and lock the bedroom door. Buy a latch and bolt the bedroom door if necessary! Let the oldest child make breakfast for the youngest children on weekends. Then you can begin to have time to meet her fantasy needs. The kids will accept it after a while and you'll have set the stage for your first fantasies with her. As time goes on, she will become more comfortable and you can add more props.
None of these techniques are guaranteed of course, but your marriage certainly won't be harmed by them. The worst that can happen is that your wife will be exceedingly pleased and happy with all the love and attention that you shower on her. If she asks you why you have suddenly started being so nice to her, tell her that you were thinking of her while driving to work and suddenly realized how empty your life would be without her. Tell her at that moment you realized that she was the most important part of your life and how much you loved her.
Be an exceptionally loving and sensitive man, Sugar, and maybe your wife will let you be her baby boy!
Mama Jenn
mama jenn
will it be alrigth for my girl friend how is pergant
to breast feed me im 28 male
superd
If your pregnant girlfriend wants to breastfeed you, then that's wonderful! If you had read Mama Jenn's article on "Breastfeeding Your Adult Baby" in our AB Resource section, you would have read that historically, men who wanted to insure that their (expected or hoped for) baby boys would have a good supply of milk at the time of birth would deliberately simulate their wives' breasts to produce milk and then breast-feed at their wives' paps once lactation had begun. Unless you have an allergy to human milk or have an ongoing infection in your mouth or a disease that can be transmitted by oral contact like AIDS, I can't foresee any medical problem. Biologically, it's an excellent idea! Whether your girlfriend agrees with your idea is another thing entirely. If she is in favor of breastfeeding you, then go for it!!
It will do the baby, the mother and you a lot of good! Mama can't find a single thing wrong with the idea!
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn,
I just need to get this out so i don't feel so alone. Life is really hard right now. I'm on the football team, I'm in honors classes at school, I attend church regularly and I am in a confirmation program. With everything I do, I'm away from home more than I'm there, and when I am home, I only have time for homework and sleep. Yesterday, i was at school for literally fourteen hours straight.
So you have an idea of what my life is like (no life at all). Well, I (and if it werent for this part, of course, i woulndt be writing you) like wearing diapers and i have always wanted to be a daddy for a diaper loving girl. I Don't know why, but i've always been atracted to diapers. Maybe its the security, the lack of responsiblities, that warm wet feeling. I have a girlfriend and ill admit, we do have sex, but she's on the pill, and i wear a condomn, and we try to be as safe as possible about it. Her Name is Nicole. She's Eighteen. I love her with all my heart. I so wish I could be her daddy, and she would be my baby girl. But alas, shes knows not of my little secret (nor do my parents, though they've caught me with diapers in the past, and very kindly but firmly told me to "cut it out or i tell all your friends"). We've joked about her wearing diapers though, a rather small sign of hope if any at all.
So, i trudge on, sexually and emotionally locked up. I already know my parents would not accept my secret, and for the fear of losing her, i could never tell Nicole. Thank you for listening and im sorry i couldn't give an email address
StressedOut
Mama isn't in the habit of emailing the people who ask her questions, so you don't have to worry.
Mama is very sorry that you have such arduous days. Even though you very properly need to study in college, overwork can make your work suffer as well as your memory. If at all possible, try and get as much rest as you can. You don't want to burn yourself out before you get out of college.
From what you've told Mama, it seems like you've already developed a diaper fetish or a possible AB orientation. Mama does want everyone to know that most psychiatrists and sexual therapists consider the AB lifestyle or a diaper fetish to be a innocuous sexual variation or at worst, a fetish that is completely harmless. She also wishes to state for the record that most psychiatric authorities consider a diaper fetish or a sexualized need for regression that is established before or during puberty to be extremely difficult to impossible to successfully treat with the idea of "curing" the patient. The prognosis for a "cure" is extremely poor, with little to no hope of successful treatment. Modern protocols for treatment of psychosexual infantilism in adults don't call for any attempt to "cure" the patient of their needs, but rather to help them adjust to their desires, control their desires, to relieve feelings of guilt and to help the patient accept themselves.
It is highly probable that even if you were not living under your parent's roof that they might demand that you to see a psychiatrist if they discovered your predilection for diapers. Mama's advice is to obey your parents should they make the request, because your psychiatrist could well prove to be the best person to "break the news to them" and explain just how harmless your sexual orientation actually is.
Mama quotes from a book entitled, "Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression" in which the author writes, "The goal of any type of psychotherapy should be to open options from which the client can choose. In psychosexual infantilism, psychotherapy can serve to remove blocks to conventional scripts, to increase control over variant behaviors (so that acting out of the fantasy is by conscious and informed choice, not irrational compulsion) and to heal the emotional side-effects of having a variant script (guilt, anxiety, depression)."
(A review of this work can be found at: http://www.sexuality.org/l/wh/whinfant.html)
As Mama has frequently written, intense guilt feelings and a sense of isolation are major problems with ABs and people with diaper fetishes. Mama wishes to assure you that while she is extremely well read in the religious texts of many cultures, she cannot recall a single line of any religious Holy Scripture that specifically forbids enjoyment of diapers or being an AB. In short, Mama has been unable to find any explicit moral proscription of enjoyment of wearing or using diapers or of playing a baby role.
Mama hopes that you will continue to be very circumspect about introducing your girlfriend into your particular lifestyle or needs. Most young women are not emotionally prepared to handle any sort of sexual variant, no matter how harmless. You recall your father's threat to tell all of your friends, don't you? Doesn't it stand to reason that your girlfriend is a far better position to do the same thing, and to really embarrass you?
Mama is very glad to hear that you practice "safe" sex! Please, please, continue to do so! With AIDS moving rapidly into the heterosexual world from a variety of sources, taking appropriate precautions could very well make the difference between "life and death" in years to come.
Mama knows that you are lonely and feel a bit isolated, but that's part of being an AB or having a diaper fetish. It's okay to be different, Sweetheart! There is nothing intrinsically wrong or immoral about the way that you feel. You're not crazy or insane. The allure of the feeling of absolute acceptance and the security of babyhood makes many people feel the same way that you do. You sound like a good man, Honeybunch! Everyone is different from everyone else in their own way. I know that it's hard for you to live with the idea that your parents don't accept your need to fantasize a return to an innocent state, but it's a Cross that you will have to bear until you go out on your own to make a living. Many, many people have done it before you. You are not alone in the world!
Mama Jenn will always be here to comfort you and tell you that as long as you're good in other ways, your love of diapers doesn't make you a bad person.
With Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn
I have at the moment a lot of problems and I am hoping that you may be able to help me in few of them . When i was 3 , I was sexually abused by my grandmother ,for 2 yrs . From the ages 11 to seventeen , I was sexully abused and violently abused by several ,diffrent people both male and female . After one time when my abusers had thought that they killed me . I was taken under the wings of three middle aged women . The women never physicaly hurt me but the loved to dress me as a baby girl . I felt very important as they used to protect me from the other adults . Because , there was no violence , Ifelt strong and secure , while being dressed by them . At changing times Iwas always masturbated with a lace hanky , now its the only way I can orgasm . mywife knows of me being an AB but as she is disabled. there is nothing she can do to help me . I also am dis abled . Along with being an ab , I have a fetish for being maturbated with a lace hanky . I have checked 1000's of web sitees , for this fetish , without results .Am I the oly one . I feel so alone and have already ,tried suicide on several occasoons
IF YOU CAN PLEASE!, HELP ME .
MANY THANKS DKsqueegle
Every AB expresses his sexuality in his or her own ways. Granted, a lace hankie fetish is a bit different today, but it is not so far removed from a fetish with lacy women's panties or adult-sized baby girl panties. In psychological terms, it represents a smaller "displacement" from the sexual "norm" than the other two fetishes cited above. (This should not be taken to mean that Mama is critical of the other two fetishes that she used as examples.)
Actually, your particular fetish was very, very common sixty to seventy years ago. Throughout the Victorian and Edwardian (The "Golden Era") period, lacy women's handkerchiefs were considered symbolic of the epitome of feminine pulchritude and women quite often "discreetly" masturbated their beaus before marriage with their lace handkerchiefs. As a consequence, what you consider to be a fetish became a very ordinary and accepted part of the American courtship ritual.
This practice continued through until the late Fifties with fastidious young ladies, when it declined rapidly to near extinction as sexual promiscuity increased due to the social changes brought about by WWII. After the Sexual Revolution of the Sixties, it very nearly completely died out except for a few individuals like yourself who had intimate contact with women who "delicately and discreetly" practiced the "lady's handkerchief" technique when they were young. Don't feel badly about your fetish. It's absolutely harmless and a sweet reminder of the innocence that our society has lost over the years. Sweetheart, being an AB is all about being innocent and Mama cannot find the slightest thing wrong with such a sweet, virtuous practice.
Don't be depressed, Sweetie! A handkerchief fetish is certainly no reason to commit suicide. Your fetish is perfectly normal and absolutely acceptable. The fact that you can't find a Website for it means that society as a whole has lost something precious which you still have. Enjoy yourself and imagine a doting mommy relieving her baby's physical needs with her lacy linen handkerchief scented with the sweet aromatic nursery perfume of baby powder! Better yet, go out and buy some lacy lady's handkerchief's of your own and sprinkle them with baby powder to help you fantasize. That way you'll have the best of both worlds!
It's okay to be sweet and innocent, Darling, even if you are the last person in the world to have such a "virtuous" need. Don't judge yourself by the depths of society's corruption, but by your gentle ingénue!
With Deepest Love and Affection,
Mama Jenn
PS: Derek, Please contact me about the swap you mentioned.
Dear Mama,
I am so happy to hear that you are not pro. I get so sick and tired of people that just want to make money off of us babies. How did you become a mommy to an ab?
I have wondered how to find a woman that truely loved this role and become her diaper dependant baby. Even though I would give in freely, I still like the idea of forced
regression. This might deal with being locked in a crib and have a specialized diaper that I would not be able to take off. Mommy would be the only one that could get it off
after I was forced to pee or mess in it. If you know any of your friends that have expressed wanting to get their very own baby, please keep me in mind. In the meantime, I
will go on living with this depression.
Hugs
Wannabediapered
Mama Jenn is a real mother to an AB because she married him. She didn't know it when she was married, but her husband told her a few years later.
Pumpkin, part of our mission is to help depressed ABs and give them a forum to talk about their needs and to supply resources to help them. Mama is very, very sad that you are depressed and wants to help you.
Mama wrote a resource article on how to "Find Babysitters for ABs", which is posted on our Website. If you wish a more permanent relationship, she advises you to post on our AB personals Ad board and on other AB boards. DPF maintains another widely read board which you might want to post to.
Love and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
hey momma jen
me wanna thank u for writing me back me be a good baby so far momma no poopys in class but me and my girlfreind (my mommi) did someting kinda naughty me wana ask u if me should tell my weally mommi me and my girlfreind had the house to our selves for a weekend and we were bored me was also out of my diapers cause me like to make poopies all the time in em :) so and i tel u this is nto a lie ,we got in to my grandfathers stash of depends .well mommi put one on me and told me to make the biggest poopie i could so i did and she then had to chaneg me well monday came around and theres no more diapers for me (or for my grand pa) and my mom is really mad and wants to no where they went ( she doesnt no i am into this stuff) mam jenn should me tell her or should i keep it a secret Well i gotta go i just made a mess in my diaper
bye bye mam jenn i wuv u:)
Baby Christopher
Baby does have a problem, doesn't he? Baby has been very, very naughty by stealing Grandpa's diapers! You must replace them immediately with your own allowance or money. Stealing is very, very, naughty. Mama would prefer that you tell the truth to your mommy, but she has little hope that you will do so.
Mama will give you a somewhat lame excuse to suffice if you replace Grandpa's diapers. Firstly, do you ever change Grandpa's diapers? If so, you can claim that you took his dirty diaper into the bathroom to empty into the toilet and thoughtlessly brought the bag of his diapers into the bathroom with you. After flushing the solid waste down the toilet, you suddenly had an urgent need to pee, so you lifted the toilet seat and peed standing up. Suddenly, the stream of your pee when sideways and went right into the package to soak all of Grandpa's clean diapers. Mama's own husband has the same problem all the time, which is why she makes him pee while sitting on the toilet.
The excuse is thin, but it should work if you impress your mommy at how embarrassed you were with your "potty accident"
Be a good baby, and never steal Grandpa's diapers again! Okay, Sweetheart?
Mama Jenn
dear mommy jean.
i need your help in finding me a sitter.i've looked and looked but can't find anyone.i'm a diaper wearer and need someone to come and baby me and change my diaper.can u give me any info;this would be a big help.
Mark
Mama Jenn wrote a long article on how to find babysitters. If you will look on our Website, you will see a section on How to Find a Babysitter for an Adult Baby. The Webmistress, has recently reformated the article to make it easier to read. Mama doesn't have any updates for her article at this time.
Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Hi Dearest Mama Jenn,
I'm responding to help who ever wants to know how to make a diaper more absorbent. I use a large diaper at night,(instead of a medium I would use most other times). I lay out my diaper on my bed and place obsorbent pads in them that have a peel off strip. Then I just place the side with the sticky strip on my night time diaper. I use about five pads in the lower and front, of my diaper,( I'm an AB boy so I kind of make them into a triangle with a hole for my... well, you get the idea, any ways, this really helps keeps my "pee pee" in the middle of my diaper. AB girls may find a way that works well for them too! This works well most of the time. I also place two more pads horizontally for my buns/low back.. Mostly, these two are for comfort, Hey, I want to feel really secure and safe when I go nitey nite! Tranquillity High Capacity pads, are great and so are Dignity Naturals, as they both have the adhesive strip, but don't have a water-proof backing. Also, they are both very absorbent! Kind of like custom designing your own diaper doublers! I also do this at "nap time", I just use two less pads in the front area. LUV YOU!!!!!
Hope this helps some AB's Mama Jenn!!
MJ Young or "joey"
What a wonderful idea! Thanks for sharing it with us!
Love,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama,
Can you recommend a diaper that is sold in stores that has a lot of bulk? I currently use Depends Overnight, but they are too thin and also leak when used, lying on my back.
Friend
Mama has been looking for the same thing for her baby, but hasn't found one. The best solution that she's been able to come up with for her baby is to use two diapers like overnight Depends over each other. In order for the arrangement to work, you'll need to open up or remove the protective plastic in the front of the inner diaper down between your legs so your pee-pee can soak through to the outer diaper. You can also use an overnight toddler diaper by cutting off the wings and opening up the waterproof plastic in the same way.
Wearing waterproof pant's like Comco's plastic pants with a 1" waistline and 1/2" legbands over the two diapers also seems to help.
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If any of Mama Jenn's readers has another suggestion or has found a diaper that can be used while laying down without leaking, she would appreciate your comments.
Hugs,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn,
Last year, two girlfriends and I dressed as babies for Halloween. It was a lot of fun, and I especially enjoyed wearing a diaper. My girlfriends thought I was crazy when I wet my diaper, but I liked the way it felt. When my mom noticed I was wet she treated me just like a baby and changed me. I really liked that.
After Halloween, I started wearing diapers almost every night. I also made myself a few items of baby clothes and bought items like a bottle, binkie, and baby blankies. I kept it too myself because I was afraid of how people would react.
A few days ago, my mom found my stash of baby things and was not too happy. She wants an explanation, but I am afraid to tell her how much I like pretending to be a baby. She took all my baby things, so I have had to go without diapers at night for the first time in almost a year. The trouble is that I can't stay dry at night anymore. I have been able to hide my wetting by washing my bedding every day, but I don't know how long I can keep hiding it.
I want to tell my mommy, but I am afraid. I really need my diapers back, but I don't think she will believe me. Should I just be a brave baby girl and tell my mommy that I need my things back? I am so confused.
Baby Kellie
Mama agrees that you can't keep your bedwetting a secret forever, and that your Mommy will find out sooner or later. Sweetiepie, if you continue to wet the bed without any protection, you'll ruin Mommy's mattress. You need a waterproof mattress cover as well as diapers or at minimum, a disposable bed pad until you stop wetting the bed.
Your Mommy will probably take you to a doctor or psychiatrist, to make sure that you don't have any physical problems that are causing your bedwetting and to see why you enjoy being a baby. Let Mama assure you that wetting the bed is not an evil thing, nor is wanting to be a baby again.
Mama thinks that you should be honest and be honest with your Mommy about your baby things and your wetting. After all, your Mommy is waiting for an answer.
Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn,
I'm a 25 yr old guy who lives basically as a girl. I wear girls clothes, and of course diapers. I also like to go places and dress as much as possible in just a girls top, diapers, and little girls style socks and shoes. I do get some unusual looks, especially I think since I live in Texas. I'm wondering why I can't ever seem to find someone to be with who can accept my mode of attire, and if there may be a place where how I dress won't cause such crude remarks at times? I've searched everywhere.
Wishing for acceptance in Dallas
DiaperedBoyInGirlsClothes,
Mama is very surprised that you've managed to get away with your outfit in Dallas! The 1981 Federal Court decision, in Doe v. McConn, declared a Houston, Texas, anti-cross-dressing city ordinance unconstitutional. The ordinance which made it illegal to appear in public areas "dressed with the designed intent to disguise his or her true sex as that of the opposite sex," as it was applied to preoperative transsexuals who cross dress in preparation for sex reassignment surgery does not seem to apply to transvestites. Although Mama looked, she could not find any applicable (to her) Texas Statutes forbidding transvestitism in general, although various municipalities in a number of states have had a notorious history of passing their own anti-transvestite and anti-Gay laws.
Dallas in particular has acquired the reputation over the years of employing police who seem to interpret the Disorderly Conduct laws in extremely imaginative ways.
Sweetheart, if you want acceptance, Mama suggests that you move to an area with strong Gay and Transvestite political support groups like the Bay area of San Francisco. No one will blink an eye at you there and you'll be protected from police excesses.
Love,
Mama Jenn
hi mama
im 18 and still wet my bed should i wear diapers and what type of plastic panties should i wear pink or blue im a boy should i wear them in public what do u think of should do
Wetdiapers
My question to you is, do you want to wear diapers, Sweetheart? If you don't, you can get medical treatment for bedwetting. If the treatment hasn't worked or you want to wear diapers, by all means do so!
The question of the color of the plastic pants is more difficult. Firstly, are you an extremely heavy wetter? If so, Mama recommends Comco pants with a 1" waistband and 1/2" legbands. As far as Mama knows, these pants come in white only. If you are not a heavy wetter, then almost any pants will do. If you want to feel delicate and girlish, wear pink pants. Wear pink rumba pants with lacy ruffles if it makes you happy! If you want to feel like a little baby boy, wear blue pants. Or better yet, do you remember the color of plastic pants that you wore as a baby? If you wear the same color that you wore when you were a little baby, it may make you feel more babyish.
Do you want to wear diapers in public under your street clothes? If so, you can. There is no reason not to wear diapers if you are properly clothed over your diapers. Honeybunch, Mama can't make these decisions for you, you'll have to make them for yourself. All she can do is tell you that it's okay for you to want to wear diapers and to wear them if you have either a psychological or emotional need to wear them.
Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Hi Mama Jenn:
I live on this AB site! (Well almost).
My question is: do you think that I should be able to handle being an "on-line Daddy only", to a AB girl, (Which is something I just started doing in the AB personal ads here), and at the same time look to get my AB needs met in real-life? I would like to believe that being an online Daddy may help me gain valuble in-sight into my "younger self".Well Mama Jenn, I have faith in your answers. Thanks
MJ Young
Mama sees no reason why you couldn't do both. Consider the advantages to the baby girl; you as her Daddy (who is also an AB) would completely understand her baby viewpoint and fears. Because the relationship is virtual, there would be no possibility of a sexual relationship to destroy the parent/baby game/relationship between you and her. You might not have an exact insight into what she needs, but you would be more receptive to her needs than most men and gentler than 99.99% of the men on the street. Because you are an adult baby, I know that you have a sweet, loving soul. If there is better qualification for a parent, I can't imagine what it might be!
The next question is, what can you learn from dealing with a girl baby? Well, the first thing that you will learn is that baby girls are inherently different from baby boys. I'm not speaking of anatomy, interests, toys or upbringing, but that there is a fundamental difference between the mental and physical "wiring" of a baby boy and a baby girl. Some anatomists have stated that boy's are merely incomplete girls, but this statement is far too thin to be a proper explanation. The difference between the sexes goes down to the very structure of their DNA. It's almost like they are separate species. You'll see the personality and thinking differences as well as the emotional set of a woman without the façade of her social veneer and maturity. It may be shocking, but some wives of AB husbands are quite as shocked by what they discover beneath a man's façade of social veneer and so-called maturity. Let me assure you that it's an educational experience!
After the experience of being exposed to a baby girl's thoughts and needs, you will find yourself bonding more closely with your Mommy. Life, if considered from a strictly sexual point, is a balance between two groups who live in the same world, but don't usually have overlapping experiences. Humanity is divided into two groups with vastly different behaviors: men take and women share. A man's aggressiveness is not a fault, but a hunting behavior that was ingrained into the basic pattern of his DNA over millions of years. Likewise, a woman's propensity to share is part of her maternal makeup and the DNA guided pattern of gathering food rather than attacking and killing it.
Women have highly developed visual pattern recognition skills for recognizing plant types, a better sense of both smell and taste and can deal with a number of problems simultaneously to look after children whist watching out of the corners of their eyes (women have better peripheral vision than men in general) for predators while they gather food. Men can see long distances, can focus their attention on a single object or thought for hours at a time, and are capable of extreme violence to bring down large game. Their brains are hard-wired to accept pain, hunger and privation. They are large, solitary creatures who "go to their caves to think out problems" while women are social and seek the advice of other women within the tribe as a whole.
Women sustained human tribes over the millennia by finding literally hundreds of vegetable, root, fruit, nut, fish, shellfish, grubs, insects, bee honey or other food resources that could safety and easily be gathered. What the tribe's diet always lacked was high energy animal fat as well as animal protein, which could only be obtained by hunting. Men risked their lives to obtain this type of fat for their tribe (the protein was secondary), but when the hunter came home empty-handed, the women of the tribe still had food enough to support another hunt. (Welsh women have a name for a cheese and bread dish that they call, "Welsh Rabbit", that they still serve to Welsh rabbit hunters who have failed to bring home game for the evening dinner. - Some things never change!)
We are all prisoners of our DNA. But the presence of a baby changes the rules, because parents share, not take. In the presence of a baby, the reflexive wiring of the Limbic brain takes over and even an aggressive man becomes a caring, nurturing parent. Instead of being a passive baby boy who only has needs, you will learn that your Mommy has needs too and you will share hugs, kisses, delighted looks as well as goos and gaas to tell her how much you appreciate her and love her attention.
Now let's turn the problem on it's head and look at it backwards. How would you, as a baby, benefit from having the experience of being a Daddy? Firstly, you would begin to understand the concerns a parent (even an email parent) has about his or her baby. You'll feel the helpless frustration and fear every parent feels when his or her baby is unhappy when you know that can't do anything to help your baby. You'll worry about her at night before you go to sleep and during your day, trying to find some way to resolve her problems. You will learn what it is to be responsible for someone else, and when your own Mommy or Daddy cares for you, you will love them all the more because you will have been in his or her shoes. You'll probably become less fussy and a more patient baby. Your Mommy or Daddy will be pleased by how much better behaved you'll become and you'll receive a lot more positive feedback, love and cuddling.
Sugar, this is a win-win game for everyone! The love that you bestow on your online baby girl will be returned to you three-fold. You have Mama Jenn's full blessing!
Be as gentle, loving and caring with your online baby as you would like your own Mommy or Daddy to be with yourself and you'll be a fine parent, Sweetheart!
My Kisses and Love go out to both of you, Pumpkin! Mama knows that everything will go well between the two of you!
Mama Jenn
Hi!
Would you where I might find Hemp and, or Twill diapers in adult
sizes?
Thanks,
Glenn
Twill comes in two forms; either left-handed and right-handed. Muslin is a left-handed twill. There is a company that markets adult diapers that are made from 55/45 hemp/cotton (muslin) fabric, so both your questions can be answered at once.
The company can be found at Adult Cloth Diapers.
They make a super-absorbent, rewashable hemp/cotton diaper called adult Hempers(tm). One supposes that the company name is Hempers, but Mama couldn't find any reference to the company name on their Website.
Let Mama caution you that hemp diapers are not initially as comfortable as regular cotton diapers are, but she wishes to assure you that they will become softer with use. They have the added advantage that they only shrink about 7% after washing, so you need not order them in a size larger than your measurements and that they are far more mildew resistant than cotton diapers. Do NOT use bleach with hemp diapers as it will damage the fabric! Additionally, they are more eco-friendly than regular cloth diapers. For long term use, hemp diapers are an extremely sound investment as they are far more durable than any other sort of cloth diaper!
Mama hopes that you will enjoy your new diapers!
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn
I read your message about to try and us the catnip to relax my bladder to try and wet myself i used pure organic catnip and cooked it for the time you said, nothing happen , or mayby it did it seamed harder to pee.
what do you think I can do to pee naturly at night and in the day time?
I be a good baby and wait for your answer
baby robby
Mama thinks that maybe you're trying too hard and tensing up. The catnip is supposed to help relax you, not cause you to lose total control. Some people wet the bed the very first time they use catnip, but most people's potty-training is too ingrained unless they were prone to bedwetting as teenagers. Did you try eating watermelon with it? Watermelon should make you produce more pee during the night. If you want to pee both day and night, then urinate the very first time you feel the slightest need all the time. Eat lots of watermelon so you will feel the need to pee more often. After three to four weeks of peeing the minute you feel the need, you'll find that it will become increasingly difficult to hold your pee for more than a few minutes. At that point, peeing while you sleep will be easier because you won't have time to wake up and get to the bathroom.
It's all a matter of retraining your bladder not to hold it in for any length of time. This isn't an overnight process, Hun, it takes time and a little patience on your part. What you're trying to do is retrain the nerves of your bladder to think that you'll pee the minute that they signal the slightest fullness in your bladder. It takes little babies a long time to get potty-trained so they don't wet themselves. Honeybunch, you're trying to unpotty-train yourself out of years of potty-training, so give your body some time to adjust. A month, perhaps six weeks to eight weeks and you'll be wetting yourself every night!
Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mama Jenn
I have had a wonderful Mommy for 2 years now. My Mommy would like to know how she can start breastfeeding me. Also I have been trying to wet my diapers at night for 2 years, but I can`t. Can you help me Mama Jenn.
Love Baby Sharon
Your mommy's OB/GYN can prescribe a hormone to cause her to lactate (get milk). Sometimes, mere stimulation on the aureoles of a woman's breasts will cause lactation, but Mama Jenn assumes that you've already tried this. If your mommy were to tell a very small white lie and tell her OB/GYN that she wants to breastfeed her sister's or cousin's baby while the baby's mother is desperately ill or if she explains that the adoption papers have almost come through for the adoption of a three-month-old infant, it might work. Mama suggests that she try for the first story, because her OB/GYN probably doesn't' know her family history and the adoptive baby story might prove a problem later on. The hormones estrogen,prolactin and oxytocin are usually prescribed for adoptive mothers who wish or need to breastfeed infants.
Hormonal therapy to induce lactation generally consists of administration of estrogen to resemble the high-estrogen state of pregnancy. The estrogen is then abruptly withdrawn to mimic the rapid hormonal changes following delivery. A course of a prolactin-enhancing drug such as metaclopromide is then started. Once the prolactin, the milk-making hormone, is at a high enough level, then oxytocin, the milk-releasing hormone, will be produced in response to nipple stimulation. Sucking stimulation by the baby is begun at this point. One study of induced lactation using medications describes beginning of milk production as occurring between 5-13 days.
As for your lack of ability to wet yourself, Mama has given advice over and over again in her column in how to lose toilet training. Read my earlier replies, I know that you will find that they work.
Mama hopes that you will be able to nurse at mommy's breasts soon,
Mama Jenn
Dearest Mama Jenn
I am wondering if you know anything about urinary catheters? I am curious about using them to help me become incontinent. I know where I can get some very good ones and was wondering if you knew anything about them...how they are to be used... etc.
Baby Benji
Yes, Mama knows a bit about catheters. They won't help you become incontinent unless you don't observe sterile practices or leave them in too long. The danger is in getting a severe UTI (urinary tract infection) or a bladder infection that might damage your bladder sphincter. A straight catheter will help you simulate the urinary incontinence of early infancy, i.e., you'll dribble constantly requiring multiple diaper changes to stay dry. You will pass urine without any sensation other than a moist diaper. Straight catheters are SHORT term catheters which need to be removed after a few hours. If you leave a Foley catheter in too long, there is a risk that your bladder sphincters will become irritated and swollen and not allow you to pass any urine at all. The longer a catheter is left in place, the higher the risk factor for irritation or of a UTI.
Do not purchase anything but factory-sterilized catheters! They are packed in sterile, sealed paper/plastic peel-open packages. Do not attempt to sterilize a used catheter or purchase non-sterile catheters! Sterility of the catheter as absolutely is essential to your health! New factory-sterilized catheters cost about $4.00 through medical supply
sources.
The best catheters are made from latex-rubber with a teflon coating, but be positive that you don't have a sensitivity to latex before you purchase this type!
The DPF store sells a twenty page manual on catheters for $10.00. (look up catheter report under the index) According to the description for the report, it says; "Approximately 20% of adult babies have some interest in catheters. This 20 page report covers such subjects as, (1) the male sex organ, (2) the body's production of urine, (3) different types of catheters, (4) the dangers of infection, (5) methods of insertion, (6) helpful hints, and (7) how to obtain catheters." click here to go to the DPF store
There is also an article on Catheter Play at: http://www.queernet.org/deviant/bfcath.htm
Be very, very careful using catheters and always use sterile procedure!
Take care of yourself, Sweetheart, Mama doesn't want you to hurt yourself.
Love and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
Dear Mamma Jenn,
Mummy Susan has told me to say sorry for lying to you about me wanting to be a big baby. I have spent every night this week tied in my cot as punishment. I have now painted my nursery in pink and yellow and put some pretty frilly curtains up at the window. I have also been busy washing all my dirty nappies and hanging them out to dry. Our Garden is quite concealed, but when mummy makes me hang up my nappies and plastic pants on the washing line I still get nervous that someone will see. She always makes me wear my yellow baby dress and frilly baby pants when I do this, but always gives me a big cuddle for being a good baby afterwards.
We are going shopping today to buy some more baby clothes for me. I will of course have to wear a thick nappy and mummy says she is going to change me in the car when I wet. We have a big estate car, but I'm very scared still.
I have to go now because my night time nappy is very wet. Mummy only lets me play on the computer when I'm wet as she says it will stop me being on there to long because I will get uncomfy. Like you, she is always right. Now it's time for a bath and a nice dry nappy before breakfast.
Thank you for helping Mummy keep me in nappies like I want and deserve.
Love Baby Bootsie
Mama Jenn didn't believe you for a minute, so baby's little white lie didn't do any harm. Mama Jenn forgives you. Mama is pleased to hear that Bootsie was able to help his Mummy paint and decorate his nursery. Mama is sure that the new paint and drapes go swimmingly with your baby cot. Hopefully, you will stay in your cot at night so Mummy won't have to tie you down. Babies should stay in their cots at night because it's dangerous for them to be wandering around while their Mummies sleep. It sounds like your Mummy has you well in hand and that you are enjoying your new babyhood. Don't be scared of going out, because your Mummy will protect you as always.
Hugs and Kisses,
Mama Jenn
hello.
I am a 28 male in San Luis Obispo calif and I wear diapers as a result of an UTi I had as a child I wear disposable diapers and I cant firnd a friend who will accept me I am very desperate and I get het on all the time but after a few dates and the get to know me stage has passed I get dumped. I have gotten sucidial over this cause I am very lonley. I just want to have a girl friend or an e-mail friend of some kind.
Michael
Please don't hurt yourself, Sweetiepie! Mama understands how lonely you are and how frustrated you must feel. Have you tried to talk to ABs in chat rooms or in personal ads? Even if you can't find a girlfriend right away, there are plenty of ABs who would like to talk to you or be an email friend. We have a personal ads section on our Website as well as both voice and standard chat rooms. DPF has a BabyClub with thousands of members. Don't give up, Honey! Mama Jenn loves you! Mama knows that having to wear diapers can seem like a terribly high problem to surmount, but many, many people have done it.
If you'd like a bit of maternal advice on which sort of Mommy to look for, then Mama would be glad to help. Instead of going out with any woman, try to find a nurse or nurse's aid. They are used to diapers and will understand the problems caused by your childhood UTI. Love and care for yourself, Honeybun! Of all the foibles that men can have, needing diapers is one of the least offensive. Mama suspects that you've been unlucky and haven't looked for the right sort of girlfriend. It may take a little longer for you to find the right woman, but when you do, she will be worth all the pain and worry you've experienced.
With Hugs and Kisses for Michael,
Mama Jenn
hi , i'm an adult baby and i love wearing diapers ,i just wan to ask u something
There is a new pampers diapers with cream inside the diapers .When the dipers is wet ,
does the diapers smell good ( cream insid smell good )
thanks
Coco
Mama Jenn hasn't seen the diapers and doesn't know if the lotion is perfumed. One would assume it is, but Mama can't be certain. Mama is certain that the layer of lotion is very thin. If you'd like to buy a package and report back to us, Mama is positive that all her readers would be interested.
Mama Jenn
Dearest Mamma Jenn
I thank you so much for your advice on how to wet the bed naturally. I unfortuenately am unable to completely commit to going to the bathroom whenever I want to because I am in school most of the day and at work the rest.
I could stretch myself to listen to the tapes 21 days consecutively. I did infact buy some catnip, but am not sure how much to use in a cup of tea, and how long to leave it in there.
I would be very interested in learning about the CIA's method for causing people to wet the bed and why they would want to do that, but I understand that it might be too bland for your website so if you don't want to post then you could email it to me directly. Otherwise I will look forward to reading about it on your site. Thanx again Mamma Jenn.
Benji
If you can find some bouquet garni bags at your grocery store, they would be perfect. These are small cotton bags with drawstrings that are used to steep herbs. They can be found in most gourmet shops as well. Make a strong infusion of herb using two tablespoons of catnip and let it steep for ten to fifteen minutes in near boiling water. The easiest way is to use a Microwave oven to heat a large mug that is three-quarter's filled with water. Use honey to sweeten to taste.
Mama has listed two books below that outline the American governments abuse of medical canon and civil rights.
For more information on CIA experiments that were deliberately designed to induce infantilism, the following Website has a number of books on this subject. You can also purchase these books from the Website.
http://www.ftrbooks.com/psych/cia_mind_control.htm
Journey into Madness : The True Story of Secret CIA Mind Control and Medical Abuse" by Gordon Thomas, Bantam Books, New York, 1989
In the Sleep Room: The Story of the CIA Brainwashing Experiments in Canada by Anne Collins
Mama hopes this was of some help, Sweetheart.
Mama Jenn
Mama
Boy that was really scarry for me. I hope mattie is Ok. Are big people really that mean? I'm gonna sleep wif momie tonight. :(
Baby Mickey
Mama's very, very sorry. Mama Jenn didn't mean to frighten you with my response to Mattie, Sweetipie! In fact, part of Mama's original response was heavily edited to make it a lot less scary for her babies. Even though ABs are a far less attractive target for bad mens or womens, Mama Jenn only wants every one of her little babies to be careful so that they don't get hurt!
Don't you remember when your mommy told you that you couldn't' cross the street unless your Mommy or your older sister or brother was there to help you? Mama Jenn was giving you the same loving instructions as if she was your real mommy! Sweetbottoms, Mama loves her babies one and all and wants to keep them safe and secure like all babies should be!
Even though you are still a baby, you are big enough that you can move around your city and the country like you are a really big boy or girl! Mama Jenn worries about you and all her babies who visit babysitters that they've never met so she made some safety rules to follow to make you more secure.
Mama doesn't really believe that you will ever need them, but a good baby who follows his or her Mama's loving rules is less vulnerable to attack on their credit or their person.
Mama Jenn loves you one and all, Sweetiepies! Yes, she loves you one and all!
Be careful, my sweet, adorable, baby loves! Mama worries about each of you at every minute as you go about your day! Think of me when you go nite-nite and know that Mama's love and nightly prayers are for you!
With maternal love for her precious and adorable babies,
Mama Jenn
